Well, it slipped my mind this week as my Mother, her two sisters and I arrived at our yearly spa vacation.

The spa in spa vacation is for my aunts and me. Mom is not a services kind of gal. She can tolerate a hair cut but any other fuss leaves her squirmy.

I know this but convinced myself otherwise as we arrived here on her birthday. I planned an entire day in our robes and slippers lunching and lounging in the spa while waiting for the sweet call of our names for a multitude of services. Mom was fine with lunching and lounging. The hot stone manicure I scheduled for her was another story.

After my full body sugar srub, I stopped into the nail area searching out my Mom, scanning the area for a content, happy face. Instead, I found a warm bean-filled neck pillow draped over her tense shoulders. Her paraffin wax coated hands stuffed into toasty mittens, seeming to almost incapacitate her. Her face wincing and trying to smile at the same time.

"Oh, Mom," I said in horror, "This is hell for you, isn't it?"

"Well," she said, "It takes a while. I've been here for a looooong time." (In reality, it had been about seventeen minutes.)

While I would like to walk around all day with my wax coated hands in warm mittens, it drove my sweet Mom nuts.

To top it off, her adorable nail techician was nearly nine months pregnant and fourtyfive minutes away from her hospital. My angel Mom told her to rush through the rest of the manicure... just in case!

So please, I beg you, my Mom begs you...when giving a gift, make sure it is THEIR style and not YOUR style.

PLEASE

xo
Holly

Wednesday, July 1st, 2009

Hi My Dear Tippers,

Are you still shopping at the same stores you did a year ago? Still wearing the same designers?

Well, it's time to upgrade.

Stores are dropping prices so quickly, they practically hit your feet.

Now is the time to shop the designers and stores you have always wanted to shop.

You see, there are two type of shoppers at this moment in time.

One is in fear mode. Purchasing more of what they have in their wardrobes, buying larger quantities, not seeing what's around them.

The other sees only opportunity. Every level of shopping is open to them if they choose.

Everything is a possiblity right now. Designer prices, while still high, are within reach.

Invest in a quality designer piece while you still can.

When the economic dust clears and sales are few and far between, you will wish you upgraded when you had the chance.

And remember, as we discussed last week, look at the original price. If you would pay the original price, by it on sale. Otherwise, leave it in the store!

Enjoy your opportunities!!

xo
Holly

Wednesday, June 24th, 2009

Hi My Dear Tippers,

As this June has seen more rain than any previous June, it has also brought with it more bad hair days than any previous June.

I can't take it. Understand we are going into high heat and humidity now.

Lovely.

Spewed all this to my genius hair guy, Paul, this weekend as I was going from blonde to uber blonde. He, of course, had the solution.

Creme Oleo Relax Slim by Kerastase.

http://www.kerastase-usa.com/_en/_us/oleo_relax_slim-creme_oleo_relax_slim.htm

Kerastase is L'Oreal's high end, absolutely addicting hair care line.

Creme Oleo Relax Slim is an INTENSE cream to eliminate the frizzies. Designed for thick, dry hair, this stuff is dense and serious.

I have fine hair and I living on the edge thinking I can actually use this stuff. However, if I use a pea sized amount...and I am not talking an average pea...I'm talking a tiny sweet organic pea...my hair behaves. Like it's almost afraid to frizz.

This stuff is amazing.

Scare your hair.

Eliminate your frizz.

xo
Holly

Wednesday, June 17th, 2009

Hi My Dear Tippers,

How do you view your wardrobe?

Do you focus on what’s wrong with what you have or do you focus on what's right?

I'm hoping you answer the latter.

Whatever you put your attention to will multiply.

So, if you keep looking at the holes in your wardrobe, you will continue to have holes.

If you see the potential, your situation will improve.

Let's take this a step further. What if you focused on how you WANT your wardrobe to be instead of what it is NOW?

Look at the future instead of the reality.

Sound crazy? Well, it's not.

Putting your focus on what you want is liberating. It inspires you and puts you in control.

It helps you create a better reality.

So get into it. Tear out pages of magazines. Take note of what you love and have fun with it. That's what it’s all about.

xo
Holly

Wednesday, June 10th, 2009

Hi My Dear Tippers,

Fine.

Right after "Ma'am", possibly the worst word in the English language.

As an answer, "fine" doesn't really answer anything.

"How do you feel?", "How does this look?"

"Fine" leads you to believe there is something the responder is not saying.

Saying how you feel is sometimes tricky, especially about how someone looks.

The key is to stay neutral and focus on the facts as you see them.

"How do I look in this dress?"

Response: "The hem of the dress covers too much of your knee," or "The color of the dress doesn't bring out your eyes." But never, ever "fine".

xo
Holly

Friday, June 4th, 2009

Hi My Dear Tippers,

Look at you.

Yes, I mean this literally.

It's raining and it's been raining.

And I bet you are walking out the door with a light coat or jacket.

One of the biggest mistakes I see is when people throw on a jacket or coat and disrupt the balance of the great stuff they are wearing.

One of the biggest mistakes I see is when people throw on a jacket or coat and disrupt the balance of the great stuff they are wearing.

The wrong coat or jacket can either lift you up or pull you down. There is no inbetween.

Look at you.

Is your outerwear helping or hurting you?

xo
Holly

Thursday, May 28th, 2009

Hi My Dear Tippers,

When you meet someone you know, did you know the first thing you recognize about them is the way they walk?

It's not a conscious thing, it more a subconscious recognition. Happens in an instant.

Actors usually create a believable walk to help bring a character to life or perfect the walk of a well known figure.

Watching videos of Harvey Milk explains why Sean Penn won the best actor oscar. His walk was spot on.

In the same flash of a second someone recognizes your walk, they also subconsciously asses the balance of your look.

From the length of your hair in comparison to the length of your neck, from the width of your pant opening to the length of your trench coat, people, schooled or unschooled, notice if you are in balance or not.

Think about it. When you see a well dressed person walking down the street, your eye knows, it recognizes something special. You experience an instant wave of recognition. In a glance, you know you just saw a well dressed person and your eye most always goes back for more.

That something special initially has to do with proportion of all your elements. Are they balanced?

Pay attention this week. Be aware of what catches your eye on other people and see if you notice an overall feeling of balance and proper proportion. Also ask yourself if you appear balanced and in proper proportion.

I can help you with that. More next week.

Until then....

xo
Holly

Wednesday, May 20th, 2009

Hi My Dear Tippers,

Warm weather is really here.

Time to talk about hair.

Some women feel short hair is better in the Summer and, as my mother's hairdresser said many years ago, long hair makes more sense.

You see, you show more skin in the Summer. Low necklines, spaghetti straps. Hair looks good cascading over skin. Very good.

Short hair is better in November when you're sporting turtlenecks. High necklines look good with short hair.

One more thing. Do not wash your hair a lot just because it's Summer. I mean it.

Shampoo is a hair killer and the more you use, the more lifeless and old your hair becomes.

Use a dime size amount ONLY on your scalp, not on your ends.

If you wash your hair in the am, work out in the pm, just rinse your hair in the evening...if you have to.

Let your natural oils do their thing and have healthy shiny (possibly long) hair this Summer.

xo
Holly

Wednesday, May 13th, 2009

Hi My Dear Tippers,

"Luxury can't be luxury unless it's comfortable." I think Coco Chanel said that.

Luxury is important. Although it seems to be a bit of a taboo at the moment, luxury is going through a little re-do of it's own.

Designers are focusing the utilitarian, comfortable approach to luxury. Time and resources are too short to waste on just impressing someone...there needs to be more thought behind high end.

Fabulous, I say. Focus now comes back to what makes people feel good.

So get ready. Clothing and accessories will get more personal. More about you and less about them.

As I heard it said so beautifully...we are not in the Great Depression, we are in the Great Correction.

xo
Holly

Wednesday, May 6th, 2009

Hi My Dear Tippers,

I heard the most beautiful thing this weekend from a dear, dear friend of mine.

If you don't live your life fully, that unique combination of human is lost forever.

Not much to say after that.

You see, you owe it to yourself to figure out what makes you happy. That includes what you want to do while you are here and how you want feel everyday.

Look into yourself a little deeper this week.

All the answers are inside you, as trite as that sounds. Whether you see it yourself or get the help of others, there is a wealth of unique information inside you, just waiting to come out.

xo
Holly

Wednesday, April 29th, 2009

Hi My Dear Tippers,

It's getting pretty heavy out there, isn't it?

So why talk about style?

Let me tell you why. Authentic, sustainable style gives you the strength to show up as the unique being you are and to achieve what you want in life.

There is no time for settling. No time for feeling less because of what you wear or how you feel about your hair style.

The way you take care of yourself, on all levels, is becoming more and more important and more apparent.

Stress is everywhere. Most people don't even register it anymore. BUT when someone shows above it all, happy in themselves and what they are wearing...THAT registers.

Learn how to tap into YOUR authentic, sustainable style.

Come see me at the Naam Lounge Thursday, May 7th at 6:30 to 8:00 pm at Longevity Health 12 West 27th, 9th floor. Learn how YOU can look and feel better now, no matter your budget, no matter your issue. I will give tips for men and women and work with individuals during the talk. This is an easy and inexpensive way for you to experience what I do with my private clients. Cost is $50 and space is VERY limited so please call to reserve your spot TODAY 212-675-9355.

I can't wait to talk to you.

xo
Holly

Wednesday, April 22nd, 2009

Hi My Dear Tippers,

Supposedly, Spring is coming. Supposedly.

Thought I dreamt it this weekend, but, apparently. it's true.

Time to update your look and add a few items to your wardrobe to make everything look new.

If you want to add only one or two items, be sure one is a TAPERED pant.

Yes, the old carrot-shape has returned....narrow at the heel, multi-pleated with a high waistband.

"Might this be a Mom jean?", you ask. No, it baggy and chic and very easy to wear.

Found a fave this weekend by Helmut Lang.

http://www.barneys.com/Tapered%20Pant/500087650,default,pd.html

Pair it flats for day or crazy heels at night and it is really all you need.

Look for this silhouette in silk, sequins, cotton or wool. You cannot go wrong.

Speaking of not going wrong, come to an absolutely style (and fun) filled evening with me at the Naam Lounge Thursday, May 7th at 6:30 to 8:00 pm at Longevity Health 12 West 27th, 9th floor. Learn how YOU can look and feel better now, no matter your budget, no matter your issue. I will give tips for men and women and work with individuals during the talk. This is an easy and inexpensive way for you to experience what I do with my individual clients. Cost is $50 and space is limited so please call to reserve your spot today 212-675-9355.

I'm excited to see you!.

xo
Holly

Thursday, April 16th, 2009

Hi My Dear Tippers,

Have you heard of the Gossip?

An American punk band headed up by Beth Ditto- a woman with serious pipes and a self-proclaimed "fat lesbian from Arkansas".

The band toured the US for years and then took their show to the UK where they were embraced. Two years ago, NME, Britain's New Music Express, dubbed them the coolest band and featured a naked Ditto on their cover-rolls and all. England went nuts and fell in love with her.

http://localcut.wweek.com/2007/05/29/damn-girl-beth-ditto-makes-nme-cover/

Ditto is committed to music but more passionate about acceptance of homosexual rights and acceptance of people as they are- whatever weight that is. She is fearless, in your face and completely riviting.

Clad in spandex, Ditto usually strips down to her underwear at shows and exudes enormous confidence and sex appeal.

The fashion world can't get enough. She hangs with Kate Moss, closed the Fendi show and counts the skinny-obsessed Karl Lagerfeld as a huge fan.

Keira Knightly thinks Ditto is the sexiest thing she has ever seen and, I tell you, watch her and you'll see what she's talking about.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PinbakYCbhc&feature=related

She is completely herself. Almost beyond herself.

Ditto is a force and people are paying attention.

I suggest you do the same.

xo
Holly

Wednesday April 8st, 2009

Hi My Dear Tippers,

After multiple attempts and four sold out shows, I finally saw "Valentino- the Last Emperor".

A private look into the extravagant life of the iconic clothing designer, Valentino Garavani and his business partner and companion, Giancarlo Giametti.

Totally entertaining.

Watching the Valentino machine in action is surprisingly riveting.

The interaction between Valentino and Giancarlo is priceless. They are simultaneously an old married couple and two bickering sisters. Little attention is paid to how the couple struggled to build the empire (and I wish it had) but, from the constant flurry, one can only imagine.

Their lives are are luxurious, to say the least. The chateaus and yachts and well-coiffed pugs seem like a by-gone era as they flash across the screen.

Oh, and by the way, there were dresses as well!

Beautiful, hand sewn dresses cascading from sketch to the runway. Valentino's staff brings it all to life with their meticulous care.

See this movie and see it quick. Held over at the Film Forum until May 5th, it is worth well worth the effort.

http://www.filmforum.org/films/valentino.html

xo
Holly

Wednesday, April 1st, 2009

Hi My Dear Tippers,

The 80's are back.

We've talked about this for a while.

Leggings, shoulder pads, neon colored shoes, giant earrings, "Hammer" pants.

It all comes round again, doesn't it?

You are seeing all these looks in the stores but what really looks new is the return of skyscraper bangs.

Best achieved with a perm, the goal is to create three or four inches of height and interest above the forehead while the rest of the hair stays long- either straight or curly.

The look elongates the face and emphasizes the eyes of just about everybody and it's surprisingly easy to do well. Looks fresh on young girls and edgy on women in their 40's and 50's.

Use an stiff spray in the morning and plan to freshen a few times during the day.

It works in the office and gets attention out for drinks at night.

Skyscraper bangs.

The best way to say April fool's I could think of. : )

xo
Holly

Wednesday, March 12, 2008

Hi My Dear Tippers,

Seoul, Osaka, Tokyo and Milan.

Or, one could say, bubble tea, chestnut pastries, wagyu beef and risotto. OR...sparkle mascara, whitening moisturizer, high striped knee socks and stilettos. I could go on and on.

Had a great trip and everyone wanted to talk about the USA. The weakened dollar, the democratic race (lots of Obama fans in Asia, by the way) and the stock market, of course.

We are the underdogs at the moment and everyone is waiting to see what happens next.

Shopping in Milan was like one big window shopping exercise. I picked up a beautiful clutch at Fendi and figured out it cost as much in US dollars as my first car in college. Felt a bit “underdoggy&rdquo in that moment, I have to say.

What also took me back to college was the presence of shoulder pads in the high end world. Not just some subtle added padding, mind you (this is fashion, remember), but, some really big shoulder pads you can sub for a neck roll on your next intercontinental flight.

It’s the pendulum and the pendulum always has to go an extreme first to make its point. So strap in for some longer fitted jackets with strong shoulders.

You knew it was coming...with all the leggings all over the place, you knew this would happen. Makes me want to perm and use blue eyeliner but I will have to restrain myself as the trend is more feminine and tasteful than its previous incarnation.

Given the price of the Euro these days, we may all have to fork over the same amount of cash we used on our used ’84 Ford to have the look of the shoulder padded moment.

Seems like an 80’s flashback but I remember having more disposable cash then.

xo
Holly

Friday, August 10th, 2007

Oh tipper’s! How are you???!!! How’s the Summer going??

I hope everyone has been as busy as I have been traveling to attend happy events such as birthdays, surprise weddings and now, working in Asia.

Writing to you from Seoul, Korea, where the weather and the people are extremely warm. Just hopped out of a car where the driver bid farewell by playing a Korean version of “My Way” as rain poured on the windows. It was rather surreal but heartfelt. Still not sure if it was a dream or actually happened. My internal clock is still not yet set.

This is my first time in Korea and, of course, I wanted to try the local cuisine. Korean BBQ is the way it rolls around here. No ordering necessary...just sit down and they serve you thinly sliced meat (sliced with scissors, but I am trying to repress that) along with lots of pickles, kim chee and rice. It is super fast and super fresh. A bit on the noisy side too but it added to the energy.

Women dress in the most feminine style-very sweet- and men wear almost exclusively suits and dress shirts.

Everything feels very to the point here in Korea. From the food to the dress, clear and work oriented.

I am now off to Japan and,Tipper’s, you know what that means: Shopping! First Osaka and then Tokyo-best shopping in the world and I brought a big bag just for the occasion.

Stay tuned and send me your shopping vibes. All juicy details next week!!!

xo
Holly

P.S. Is that closet of yours needing a makeover? I’m here to help. Contact my agent, Blue Cullen at tiltinglily@aol.com or call her (508) 645-2832, to schedule a wardrobe consult.

Thursday, May 17th, 2007

This past winter I had a couple fashion victim moments, I will admit. Actually, maybe more than a couple...

Some of my favorites involved my 5 foot grey heather hand knitted scarf/wrap. I closed it in a total of about 3 cab doors and tripped up at least 4 sets of stairs.

Not to be forgotten, is my beautiful black Chloe bag with the extra and useless straps which hang down the sides. Really lovely...especially when a gale force wind took the straps and basically slapped me across the face while hailing a cab.

Memorable.

Do I berate myself for the mishaps? Absolutely not.
For me, if I’m not experiencing some ridiculous clothing/accessory moment, I’m not experimenting enough.

People, fashion is fun, fashion is expressive. Fashion should not be taken too seriously...really. If you do, it becomes a bit sad.

We all want to look good. Give yourself some slack. Collect your favorite fashion mishaps. I know I do. Great cocktail party conversation.

Today, for example, I am bouncing around in my billowy Catherine Malandrino tunic pointelle sweater. You know, “is it a shirt, is it a dress?”, lots of fabric. Looks good with skinny jeans or simply chunky heels.

I love it.

Unfortunately, so do random post-its and hangers. Seriously, I walked around for about 3 mins before someone told me I had a hanger hanging off my oh-so-fashionable tunic.

Memorable.
File another loveable fashion mishap.

Enjoy!
xo
Holly

P.S. Are you itching for summer? Is that closet of yours needing a major makeover? I’m here to help, right in time for the warmer weather. Let me help you look your best this summer. Contact my agent, Blue Cullen at tiltinglily@aol.com or call her (508) 645-2832, to schedule a wardrobe consult.

Wednesday, May 9th, 2007

Hi Tippers,

You are an up-to-date, really-on-top-things group, I have to say.

After I lost my mind over Pinkberry’s yogurt in LA, several of you told me they already exist in NYC. Who knew??? Obviously, not me. Thank you for filling me in, very much appreciated.

There is a Pinkberry’s in Koreatown...32nd & 5th. Also on that block is a another addictive find-Juvenex Spa.

Not for the shy or modest, this 24/7 spa caters to women during the day and opens to couples after 7pm. It is open and sparce, comfortable and relaxing.

Had a dinner date with a very good friend and I thought, “Why should we do what we always do...drop $100 for dinner and drinks, get a little buzzed and feel puffy and tired the next day?”
Same old, same old.

Why not spend the same amount...ok, maybe a BIT more, to acutually feel better the next day? So, spur of the moment, we scheduled a scrub and headed to Juvenex.

After 7pm, bathing suits are required and, if you don’t have, they provide a disposable one. Or more specifically, a breast bandage and a diaper. It did the job but felt quite odd, I must say.

The staff scrubbed and rubbed and we took time in the dry heat stone sauna and the enclosed wet sauna. For three hours, we alternated between the soaking tubs and treatments. Opting for a massage at the end, we were officially wet noodles as we sat at the bar and had lemon water and fresh fruit.

Not bad for a weeknight.

Knowing we could do this with our favorite guys in the middle of the night was also quite a plus. This place is very unique and, I stress, very open.

It’s a trip and one I will take again.

It got me so in the mood for Summer, it gave me an idea to help you get ready too. Schedule your Spring Special wardrobe consult now.

Better hurry- the first 10 clients will receive a gift certificate for a FREE Pedicure- the best in NYC...J Sisters salon on 57th. Don’t you want to be the one to let your toes free and get the best pedicure ever?!

Check out JSisters website: J Sisters

Let me help you look your best...from head to toe (sorry, couldn’t resist). Contact my agent, Blue Cullen at tiltinglily@aol.com or call her (508) 645-2832, to take me up on my offer.

I can't wait to work with you!
xo
Holly

P.S. Remember I'm only giving away 10 FREE Pedicures- Hurry I want you to be the one to get it!

Wednesday, May 2nd, 2007

Back from a lovely LA trip, Tippers.
Despite the rain and cold in LA LA land while NYC was basking in sun (hate when that happens), I had a really great time with my Aunt, cousin and his wife.

We ate super healthy food (not all) but most of the time thanks to my beloved Aunt who is actually reversing the aging process. Her diet and exercise regime puts 20 year olds to shame. And, remember many, many tips ago when her co-worker accused her of getting breast implants (we simply fit her in her right bra size, thank you very much). Well, this trip we used the same techniques to find her the perfect bathing suit. She looks incredible. Let’s put it this way, she can “see” 70 but looks like she is in her late 50’s. Well done, Carol. We are all real impressed, I must say.

Generally, shopping in LA is always a bit more on the junior side, however, I did think Resurrection Vintage Clothing on Melrose looked great. Fred Segal, the hipster department store also in Melrose looked okay but not as edgy as they used to be…I did spend much time in the beauty department and will fill you in on that next week.

The most exciting purchase in LA was a $5.00 cup of frozen yogurt. Really, I can't stop thinking about it. Would do just about anything right now to get another fix. It is actually distracting.

Write this one down....PINKBERRY Frozen yogurt. Not overly sweet like most frozen yogurt, just enough tang with fun sides. You can go healthy and decorate your cup with fruit and nuts or go old school and choose Captain Crunch or Fruity Pebbles.
You seriously can't go wrong.

It’s low cal, really yummy and about as addictive as some hard core street drugs.

Try at your own risk and remember me. This stuff will take off. Rumor has it they are opening in NYC. I will be camping out, you can bet on it.

It got me so in the mood for Summer, it gave me an idea to help you get ready too. Schedule your Spring/Summer wardrobe consult now and the first 10 clients will receive a gift certificate for the best pedicure in NYC...J Sisters salon on 57th.

Let me help you look your best...from head to toe (sorry, couldn’t resist). Contact my agent, Blue Cullen at tiltinglily@aol.com to take me up on my offer.

I can't wait to work with you!

Wednesday, April 18th, 2007

Hi Tippers,

I was overwhelmed by your response to the looming question “How many products do you use in the morning?”

Despite the smug “I am better-than-you, Ms Style Consultant” attitude, I did enjoy hearing how the majority of you use 10 (and one 9) products in the morning.

Feeling like I had my butt kicked, I whittled my routine down to 7 products (from 18, please note). Really, it’s the closest I've been to camping.

It took the same 15mins. Spent most of my time staring at all of the products I wanted to use.

So I am back to my old routine… and, in fact, added one making it now 19.

So, you can all still feel smug and superior. I'm fine with that.

With that out of the way, let’s talk about Spring. About bleepin’ time, right?

Enough with the crazy weather, bring on the sun.

The 80’s are prevalent this Spring and the best way to tip a hat to this trend is to go FUSCHIA. Try for lips or nails… but not at the same time please. Keep the metallic out of it for now and keep it matte.

It adds a nice compliment to the tons of black and white you will see in the stores and, believe it or not, it looks new. I just have to hold myself back from slathering on the blue eye liner I did in Jr High.
: )

Enjoy!
xo
Holly

Wednesday, April 11th, 2007

18

Yes, 18.

That is the number of products (I’m counting toothpaste to mascara) I used this morning to literally fly out of the house. A quickie. No hydrating mask or deep conditioner. This was on of those “relaxing” mornings when I woke up, looked at the time and said, “Holy crap! I have to be out of here in 15mins.”

As only women truly know, evolution means honing your daily routine down to break neck speed. I’m not talking throwing on your clothes and putting your hair up. I’m talking showering and make up application. Presenting a facade of a leisurely morning when only you know you nearly suffered whiplash.

Not to brag, ok, maybe to brag...once, I was running so late, I actually had a date arrive in my lobby as I was wrapped in a towel with my hair soaking wet.

Because I have a business card and, let’s face it, I am pretty much submerged in this stuff, I was able to sashay out of the elevator 10mins later with him none the wiser.

Anyway, back to my initial point, 18 products just kind of freaked me out.

I mean, come on, imagine the speed if I cut the number in half! I could be the David Blaine of
“ getting ready.”

So, do me a favor...tomorrow am, count your products and get back to me.

I could very well have a serious problem here, 18....come on!

xo
Holly

Thursday, April 5th, 2007

Hi Style Tippers! I have missed you so!

The last few weeks have been in a tornado of work and tissues. I have battled The Norvo (cruise ship) virus..it won, by the way. Some sinus infection that made me want to unscrew my head and a head cold like you wouldn't believe. Ay!

All better now and I am so ready for Spring. Yes, it’s been a mild winter, however, I want sun, I want heat. Getting my closet prepared for some new fun Spring stuff.

When things are crazy, time is tight, and you are not feeling well, even the most devoted closet fanatics (yours truly) let things get a little out of hand.

I had shoes scattered on the floor, my sweaters were, forgive me here tippers, unfolded, strewn in disorganized piles all over the shelves. And my clothes, oh, my clothes, were off their hangers. If you know me, you know I hang just about everything you can hang… even some things you can’t hang, I hang.

It was chaos and I staged an intervention for myself.

Rethinking my closet, I realized, some days you just don’t want to hang, fold or sort. It happens. Life happens. So I created a “shove space.” A designated area for unfolded sweaters, unhung jeans and anything else you don’t want to deal with that day.

Confining my disorder left my order intact.

I just love it. Some days I put my clothes in my “shove space” and fold them a few mins later.
Just for fun.

Why not create a “shove space”for yourself, it will make you feel better- I promise!

Have a great Easter!
xo
Holly

PS...Does your closet need a spring lift? Need some help opening up your closet doors wide and go through EVERYTHING for the current season? Call on me, and we can do a detailed analysis of your clothes TOGETHER. I’ll have you show me your favorite outfits and you’ll get to try on your clothes for me.

Contact my agent, Blue Cullen at tiltinglily@aol.com before the end of April to schedule a wardrobe consultation and receive a free $50 gift especially for you. Also feel free to call me at 917-859-4715 if you have any questions about the process.

Friday, February 23rd, 2007

Hi Dear Tippers,

“Holly on tour” continues and I just returned from Milan and, get this, Istanbul.

My first time to Turkey and it is something you must see.
I was lucky enough to stay at the Kempinski (Cirgan Palace) hotel and just loved it. Sitting right on the Bosphorus sea, you sleep on the European side and gaze at the Asian side of Turkey. Absolutely beautiful, even in the rain...which it did the entire time. Istanbul is built for sun and I suggest you go there when the sun is out and shining. John Kennedy Jr and his beautiful bride, Caroline, stayed at the Cirgan Palace for their honeymoon.
Put this on your list of things to do.
Cirgan Palace

Shopping in Istanbul was sophisticated and fun. Big new shiny mall with modern, sleek architecture. Pair that with the Great Bazar and it has just about everything you would want.

Found the greatest little product which I predict will take over the world soon… T-BOX. Simple t-shirts heat sealed into dense, tiny cubes.
T-Box

So simple, so novel and fun. The little cubes are 2.5" x 2.5". The shirts come out seriously wrinkled which looks very cool on, very Commes de Garcons. Wash them once and wrinkles disappear.

The packing options are limitless and, although not clear on the site, these little cubes are addictive!

Hoping no big US company rips them off because this product started in Istanbul and they are set to lauch everywhere.

Only problem I am having is keeping them in the cube. I keep opening them because it’ so fun.

Keep you eyes peeled and support them when you are able. T-BOX. The next big thing in T-shirts.

Wednesday, February 7th, 2007

I am in a chilly, kinda slushy Martha’s Vineyard right now. Working with some lovely clients and really enjoying the empty island. No traffic, no lines.

Still have Japan on my mind and have to tell you a story.

After shopping all the designer stores in Tokyo, we stumbled across an unassuming little drug store. Kind of a “Duane Reade” of Tokyo.

Did I just die and enter heaven?

Was this the afterlife?

Thousands of Japanese products at my fingertips. Things you just can’t buy in NY. Sophistication so high they just keep it for themselves. Probably illegal in the states. Did I care? Of course not.

Figuring out what the product did was the biggest challenge. We had to rely on pictures and the oh-so-pretty packaging.

There was a tablet which turns into a facial mask. Just add water to the Tums-sized disc and, voila, you have a mask, complete with eye, nose and mouth holes. I am proudly wearing one as we speak.

Moving to the body care, I grabbed a red pepper bath salt soak. Bright red powder which turned my tub into a poppy colored sauna. It cleared my throat and cured me of the last signs of jet lag.

Lots of products to whiten skin (a big thing in Japan), moisturize skin and remove any odor you may have as a human being.

From breath to bathroom, the Japanese have an array of liquids or pills to negate ANY unwanted odor. I am trying to be polite here but if you really want to know, e-mail me.

So here I am grabbing anything and everything I can fit in my basket. Time is tight. We will have to catch our flight soon and I want don't want to miss a precious product.

Arriving back to the hotel with seconds to spare, I have to fit all of my new goods into my luggage. My big roller bag is about to explode, so, my only option is my carryon. Stuffing, stuffing, stuffing. I jam it all in and off we go.

Looking back, I think I have to plead temporary insanity due to over exposure to toiletries. I completely forgot all new laws of travel-no liquids.

A young, lovely Japanese woman begins to open my bag. Simultaneously, her coworker confiscates my friend’s water bottle and my stomach starts to churn.

I smile and nod. She smiles and nods. Nodding, smiling, smiling, nodding. She runs her hands across a sea of lotions and oils. A liquid next to a liquid across from a liquid on top of a liquid.

Seriously, I will start crying.

Then, by some miracle I have still not fully understood, she says “Thank you” and closes the bag.

Thank you, Gods of Toiletries. You have protected me and I will continue to do your noble work.

Wednesday, January 26th, 2007

I just fell in love.

Hong Kong is fine, but Tokyo, my friends, is my long lost soul mate city.

What a place. The shopping is crazy fun, clothing a bit on the small side, but crazy fun anyway.

Sushi like they write about and the place is as clean as a whistle. I don’t know how they do it. Tokyo is the bomb.

While I ate my way to good skin in Hong Kong, Tokyo offered me a buffet of skin treatments.

After a long, sake-laced dinner, we decided to hit a 24 hour, you heard me, 24 hour!, bath house.

Around midnight, we soaked in two huge stone tubs, (one with hot and one with cold water), steamed our eyebrows off in a wet steam room and cooled off in our own shower station.

...and some people go to clubs, what are they thinking?

Hold on, it even gets better.

I signed up for a body scrub, and, two minutes later, a woman, clad only in her bra and undies, plops me on a table and exfoliates me until I am about 4lbs and one shoe size smaller.

It was the scrub of all scrubs.

Between buckets of warm water and curt, kind-of-in-English commands, she gave me skin I haven’t seen since I was about 6 moths old.

And, this was only the start of Tokyo. I have much more to tell and cannot wait 'til next week.

Wednesday, January 17th, 2007

Women in Hong Kong have beautiful skin. It is embedded in their culture. Most women, regardless of pay or status, get facials every week or two weeks.

Interesting. But the real story here is the what they eat to keep their skin looking young.

After arriving from my 1,000 hour flight, I was offered (not like I asked, mind you) a soup to help dry skin. A whole coconut is split in two and dropped in a pot filled with pork. The contents cook for hours and hours and the end result in a milky broth filled with rich oils to hydrate parched skin.

They then gave me a hot pear and lemon puree tea to clear clogged pores and revived tired skin (I must of really looked like crap).

Anyway, all that and a nap later did give me better looking skin. I was hooked.

“So what else can eat?” I eagerly asked.

“Ïf you want to really improve your skin, you must eat a lot of gelatin and (wait for it)....cartilage.”

Ugh, sorry I asked.

Slow cooked chicken, beef and pork yields soft edible cartilage. You will see it everywhere in China. Trust me...I saw it EVERYWHERE.

They will eat everything but the bone.

Grisly as it is, they do have good skin.

I opted more for the gelatin option.

So, the last couple days, I have eaten sea blubber (long ribbons of jellyfish), sea cucumber and fish fins.

People, I hope you appreciate all I do for you.

So today I am about to begin my last day in Hong Kong and will try to digest as much gelatin as possible.

Pray for me.

Sunday, January 14th, 2007

I am a little tan and a lot smoother from a dreamy week in Naple’s, Florida with dear, dear friends to celebrate my birthday on Jan 1 and, from what I hear from people, New Years also occurred. (I am always a little involved with my birthday celebration to acknowledge New Years-sorry.)

Anyway, we saw gators (seriously), huge birds, streets lined with money, a luxe mall, beautiful beach and a ton of sun.

What could possibly take me away from all of this fun?

Why, make up and exfoliation, of course.

I traveled between Target and Walgreens dizzy with my purchasing options. Could I fit everything in my bag. Did I need to ship??

Listen, you get a girl out of the city and put her in a Target, stuff happens.

I fell in love with a couple items from Neutrogena you simply must try. First is the at-home Mircro Dermorbrasion system. Wow, was this fun. My skin is smooth and happy. Please note, I did this after tanning and applied lots of sunscreen.

Second product that brought me endless joy was Neutrogena’s Lip Rejuvinating treatment. Love it. Soothed my chapped lips and gave me a lovely gloss at the same time.

I am packing up my new found products for my trip next week to Hong Kong and Japan. Please stay tuned for some Asia-inspired tips.

Friday, December 29th, 2006

Are you shopped out? Tired of battling the holiday crowds?

Trust me, as sick as you are now, in a week or so, you will be tempted to re-enter the stores, the malls, the Internet sites to shop.

Why?

Because it’s sale time.

Ugh.

That’s right.
No “Yippee, it's sale time!”

More like, “Buyer beware. It’s sale time.”

Here is the opportunity to fill your closet with items that are “ok.” You know, shirts when you wear you quote the price.

“Yes, I just bought it. $100 regular price, I got it for $40.”

Listen to yourself. You are justifying price before you even calculate the emotional cost.

Does the shirt make you feel like you want to be seen? Do you feel like you look your best? Is it REALLY you?

Here is the rule...
If you wouldn’t pay the original full price of the garment, you do not buy it. If you wouldn’t buy it at $100, don't buy it at $40.

Friday, December 8th, 2006

Are you the person who gives your sister a lovely sweater that matches YOUR eye color exactly?

Do you just happen to give your Mom a pretty blouse that goes so well with YOUR new blazer?

Let me tell you, the biggest mistake you can make in buying gifts is buying for YOUR style (not THEIRS)!

When out in the stores, you are most likely attracted to an item because…deep down…it is your taste. It’s a natural, knee-jerk reaction and it is fine.

The challenge is to determine if the gift is best for you or them.

Hold it, walk around with that pale grey knit hat and scarf combo. Girlfriend, is that really for your niece??? Come on, seriously. Be tough on yourself.

Have you ever said “That looks like something they already have?” If so, YOU ARE ON THE RIGHT TRACK.

Do not re-invent the wheel. Buy an item that looks like them…not you.

Wednesday, November 29th, 2006

’Tis the absolutely worst time of the year to shop. Amateurs by the thousands taking over our precious territory. Pretty much a madhouse anywhere you go.

Now is the time to use the tricks and tools of the rich and famous.

Never carry a shopping bag. Never ever.

Ship everything.
If you live a state away, use UPS and save tax.
If you live in the city, use a messenger.
Most stores offer to deliver your packages to your apartment for $10 or $15.00 on the same day you shop.

No need for cumbersome bags. Trust me, it’s enough for us to simply deal with these novice shoppers.

In fact, “back in the day,” women used to be able to memorize their credit card and exp date and just say “charge it and ship it.”

Today you have to flash the card, but trust me, you do not need to carry the bag.

Wednesday, November 22nd, 2006

Just as you are gearing up to start criticizing yourself for food you have not yet eaten, remember this…

Most of the PYT’s we see gliding down the red carpet are encased in feet of lycra and underwire.

Yes, girdles are Hollywood’s little secret. Not the stiff cone shaped contraptions of the past, new softer materials constructed with the technology of NASA.

These genius devices turn A cups into C’s and a 32" waists into a svelte 28".

Do not be deceived by their perfect little hourglass booties. These ladies are molded into their desired shapes.

Every stylist knows the drill.

So as you are considering that slice of Aunt Doris’s pumkin pie tomorrow, remember this little Hollywood secret is available to you, too.

Thursday, November 16th, 2006

Promise me something…

Wear the good stuff.
Wear it now.
Wear it often.
Wear it out.

So often we buy special, beautiful things and back away from wearing them at the last minute.

We think, it’s too much.
Too much attention.
Too much of a statement.
Too much effort.

Promise me you will pull out that super flattering dress you never wear because it’s a little too dressy for work and too casual for cocktails.

Pair it with tall boots. Wear it this holiday season. To a party or just because.

Meet your friends for drinks in something they have never seen you in.

Don’t pull out the old stand by’s.

Pull out the good stuff.
We are here.
We are alive.
Reason enough to celebrate.

Wednesday, November 8th, 2006

So last week I told you about my big new ugly workout shoes, my MBT’s. I just love them. They look orthopedic and make me a good 3" taller. I am walking tall and fast.

Because they are so big and clunky, I have to wear them with wide legged work out pants. I am using this as an excuse to start building a new workout wardrobe. (For those of you who know me, you know it doesn’t take much for me to make an excuse to build a new wardrobe.)

The best workout leggings I have come across are Lululemons. Introduced to me by my dear Canadian friend, these flattering workout pants will finally make their way to NYC in December with a store near Lincoln Center at 64th & Broadway.

Word has it, the fit is designed to make your butt look like lemons, not bumpy and porous, round and firm.

They feel is supportive and energizing. Truly flattering. The tops are cute as well.

My feet may look dorky, but the rest of me is shaping up quite nicely.

Friday, November 3rd, 2006

Spent a dreamy weekend in Martha’s Vineyard with very dear friends and clients. Took walks and watched the leaves turn colors.

Really got a feel for the Fall and the importance of walking.

Came back and decided to invest in a shoe I have heard a lot about over the last year… MBT. Shoes that not only make the walk fun but also, and really, most importantly, give you a good butt.

Swiss made for posture and control of your core/stomach muscles. The look is, at best, a bit odd. Thick and kinda bulky, they give you added height and a real kick to your step.

They are so uncool, they are actually cool.

Me and my butt will keep you updated on our progress.

Go take a look and try them for yourself. The only place I would go to buy them is Tip Shoes on W 72nd and the only person I would buy them from is Steve Miller. Tell him I sent you and feel the new way to walk.

Wednesday, October 25th, 2006

At 3am last night, I awoke to the pleasant sound of someone banging a wrench onto my pipes. If you live in a pre-war, you know exactly what I am talking about.

It’s excessive heat season.

Sure, the temperatures are dropping outside, but if you live in NYC, it’s turning into a heat fest inside.

Protect your skin now. Moisurize your body with any product that moves you.

Scented creams, unsented creams, grape seed oil, La Mer… Whatever turns you on.

Use something and use it daily. Your skin will respond quickly and protect you better when you protect it.

Just because you ain’t showin’ your skin doesn’t mean you don’t take care of it.

I am currently obsessed with baby oil. And as my dear Dad used to say, “They have to squeeze a lot of babies to make that oil…”

Wednesday, October 18th, 2006

So your nails are black and your jeans are skinny and, you ask, now Holly, “what else do you want me to do??”

Well, if you want to finish off this look and be “spot on” this trend, buy a pair of ankle boots, preferably with a high chunky heel.

“Hang on,” you say. “This sounds somewhat familiar.”

Yes, darling. You are right. We are going back to MY junior high days.

Skinny jeans and ankle boots. It’s taken off like wildfire.

Wrap me in an oversized blazer, put a fedora on my head and I am back in 8th grade heading to the Duran Duran concert.

Scary.

I have officially seen a trend come in, go out and come back around. It’s a little rough on the ego. Feels like I should be receiving my AARP card in the mail any day now.

Anyway, shake it off and, if it moves you, enjoy this new proportion.

Wednesday, October 11th, 2006

This Fall is dark.
Moody.
Covered with black, grey and intense blues and purples.

You will see these heavy colors in oversized sweaters and big knit shirts.

Pair them with the skinny jean thing we have been discussing and it won't be hard to look “up-to-date” or “in the moment” or whatever you want to call it.

Want to look even more edgy??

Paint your nails the darkest shade of nail polish you can find. Yes, Chanel’s “Black Satin” is about as popular as they come. 150 New Yorkers are on Bergdorf Goodman’s waiting list as we speak.

It is a deep, rich black that looks great on just about everybody… seriously. If you are very pale, long sleeves may help you adjust at first but that dark polish will make a pair of jeans and a t-shirt look very current.

Wear your nails short or, if you want to be a rock star, wear ’em long.

If you are in the burbs, buy this stuff up now. Go to your Chanel counter and clear them out of it before the others catch on. Bring a card table into the city and set up shop on any corner… : )

Next week, I will give you one more way to update for Fall. Until then, enjoy!

Wednesday, September 20th, 2006

Having a wonderful european trip this year. Spent a lovely weekend with a new found family in Aix en Povence and found out what all the fuss is about. The South of France has a breeze you want to bottle and take with you. I did not want to leave.

Since I had to, Paris is not such a bad place to land. It is warm and the stores are filled with new Fall finds.

Technical fabrics really are feeling right. Clean, simple shapes in jackets and slim pants seem like the best investment.

Avoid the embroidered, printed, plaids. The days of “more is more” is over.

It’s time to clean up and tech up your wardrobe.

Change is finally here.

Wednesday, September 13th, 2006

Writing to you from Milan. Big buzz about the change of proportion in fashion as we discussed last week.

Big top skinny bottom.

Another thing hitting home is color, or should I say the absence of color.

Almost everything is BLACK.

So take a black skinny pant, pair it with a black oversized sweater and finish it off with black shoes and, get this, a black bag.

Black is everywhere!

It is actually a sort of hard “color” to wear. Drains most people and a bit of color in the make up usually takes care of it.

This season, however, designers are showing it with a very minimal face. Just a touch of color on the cheeks, a hint on the lips and tiny bit of mascara.

Almost a like you just blushed from a compliment and bit your lip.

Play with it. It is a contrast. Goes against the norm. Pretty much what this season is all about.

Wednesday, September 6th, 2006

Two tips ago, I mentioned everything is changing this season. Magazines look crazy and the stores and stylists are still trying to figure out the whole thing.

Basically, it is a major change in proportion. So as not to drive yourself crazy, concentrate on the following.

Pants are straight and for the most part, skinny. Tops are big and oversized.

This is quite a departure from the boot cut pants/fitted tops ensemble everyone has been wearing for the last decade.

The number one way to update your look this season is to loose the boot cut pants and buy skinny or straight cut pants. If you want to avoid the skin tight pant… and really, who doesn’t, go for a stove pipe pant… straight and fitted.

Also buy a couple oversized sweaters… loose and flowing if you are tall and lean and shaped if you are short and curvy.

Retailers are chomping at the bit because they know what a drastic change in fashion brings… lots of money to them. Everyone looks in their closets and sees nothing similar to what we have been seeing in magazines and on tv. The only option is to shop… or bring out the big dusty box marked 80’s in your attic.

It is up to you.
Have fun with it and enjoy the new shift.

Wednesday, August 30th, 2006

Are you opinionated?
Do you usually state what’s on your mind? Can people count on you to add spice and insight to a lively debate?

If the answer is yes, let me ask you another question… When you shop, do your friends often say “that is so you!” “Like, oh my God, that is soooo you!”

Well, not surprising. The two are very related.

People with strong opinions most often have a strong sense of style as well.

Just as you construct your opinions, you, without as much conscious thought, construct your style.

It is simply narrowing what appeals to you. Whether it is senatorial candidates or Fall’s newest handbags, your mind is processing what you, and only you, prefer.

Thursday, August 23rd, 2006

I think I have received approximately 40 pounds of magazines in the last two weeks. The big September issues are dropping with a big thump.

Lots to look at. Many interpretations for Fall.
Layers on top of layers.
Skinny jeans and huge tailored pants.
Urban combat wear.
Big sculpted shapes.
80’s abounding.

A lot to look at, not a whole lot to wear.

Fashion is making a larger than normal change this season. And when fashion changes, it makes it a big change.

It says, “we want to make sure you get this, so we will make it as jarring as possible.”

Editorial layouts will be less about what you want to wear and more about what excites or repulses you.

By looking at the extreme this season, the shapes and proportions will not look so nutty next season. Aren’t they clever?

So enjoy this little introduction of what it to come and be entertained. See what floats your boat or what sinks it.

Wednesday, August 16th, 2006

Picking up a hot morning beverage the other day,
I had my hip, larger-than-life Summer bag on my shoulder.

Reaching in to quickly grab my wallet, I kept reaching and reaching and reaching…
past the work out wear, past the sunglasses, past the shampoo I bought yesterday.

I am sure the fourteen other patrons in line didn’t mind at all.

As I was just about to put the bag on the floor and step inside it,
my little fingers finally wrapped around my wallet.

Hooray!

Yes, I have fallen into the big bag trap.
I am carrying things I don’t need. Things I could easily do without
but because I have the big bag… I trek them around the city for days on end.

Will I be able to change my ways for Fall??

For Fall, I see clutches everywhere.
I am fantasizing about a mini Fendi clutch…
bergdorf goodman

I see it now. Running from appointment to appointment carrying nothing but
my adorable mini clutch. No shampoo bottles. No work out tees.

Freedom.

Of course, after a few weeks, I will miss the freedom of my big bag.
Come on, you know it will happen.

But, alas, what am I to do?

Thursday, July 27th, 2006

Summer is winding down.
It’s true.

The next few weeks will be a blur so no time left to fool around with your toes.

It’s high pedicure season and if you are going to make a toe statement, do it now.

Red will have it’s time this Fall. Pink is a bit too passive and we’ve all over-done the neutral white tones.

Right now, and I mean right now, paint those toe beds ORANGE.

A bit neon if you are totally fearless or more on the apricot side if you want to ease into it.

Orange is playful and flirty. It updates those neutral strappy sandals you have and looks great against white.

Your feet are the focus now, say something.

Wednesday, July 19th, 2006

This heat makes me lazy.

I let my hair air dry (a huge plus for the health of your hair).
I take a cab.
I order in.
And I am certainly not wearing much make up.

My trick for the hot Summer months is to use my lipstick as color for my lips AND cheeks.

What? You expect me to carry around brushes and blushes and the rest of that stuff I usually love to play with??

It’s too friggin’ hot.

I use and pack a touch of concealer, mascara and my trusty Shu Uemura lipstick. No sales pitch here but the genius make up maven himself, Mr Shu Uemura, developed his lipstick to be used for the lips AND the cheeks.

The man understands speed.

It is enough that I actually get out of the house in this crazy heat.

Wednesday, July 12th, 2006

Just as I am nursing a blister from my new Summer platforms, it is time to tune into Fall.

The 80’s are creeping in more and more each day and leggings seem to be the most agreed-upon choice.

The only rule… do not wear them as leggings.

This “re-do” is a tad more subtle than my nod to Madonna at my Junior High dance.

Do not, as I did, wear them as pants with a shirt tucked in and a belt. For memory’s sake, let’s say it worked then. It does not, however, work now.

Leggings, in 2006, are all about layering. Layer them under a dress, a short skirt… just make sure you layer them.

If the thought is too much for you, pick up a pair of opaque black tights. Wear them with thick heeled shoes and create the same leggy look.

Shoulder pads may be next, ladies.
Be scared.
Very scared.

Thursday, June 29th, 2006

I just spent a wet and wonderful weekend in Martha’s Vineyard. Introduced Fashionfest ’06, and let me tell you, 6" of rain will not keep Vineyard ladies away from their fashion.

Under a large tent, the event was pulled off without a hitch, despite the constant downpour. Well done.

The show featured dressing for Summer events…beach, boating and evening.

Made me think of something I want to stress to you. Do you know the worst time to shop for an event is right before the event?

It’s stressful. It becomes a “have to do” instead of a “want to do”.

It’s much better to look at what is happening in your life over the next, let’s say, 6 months, and see what you will be doing.

Might you be....
hitting loads of cocktail parties?
camping? (just for your info...I won't be camping)
sailing?
interviewing for a job?
dating?

Don’t shop for an event. Shop for your varied and interesting life.

Thursday, June 22nd, 2006

I was scooting around Soho this past weekend… this past “Africa hot” weekend.
(How is this possibly June?)

While checking out Summer sales, I literally stumbled (seriously, almost dropped my fresh ginger spiced ice tea) across a tiny treasure of a jewelry store.

by boe on Prince street. http://www.byboe.com/

Sophisticated, clever, completely wearable necklaces, earrings and bracelets. Thought the prices would all be in the three digit range and, to my surprise, most were under…well under.

Fell in love with some gold filled ear candy under fifty bucks!! Statement earrings to revive my basic Summer t-shirts.

Absolutely anything in the store would make your wife beaters look cutting edge again.

Check out the site, but trust me, the goods look even better in person and the store is sandwiched right in a major shopping hood.

Great place for you and a fab place for gifts.
Remember, earrings always fit, my dear.
Enjoy!

Wednesday, June 14th, 2006

Does your bra fit properly?
Are you maximizing your assets?

We’ve talked about this before but I don’t know if you really understand the power of a properly fitted bra.

While enjoying a multi-generational spa weekend with my beloved Mom, 2 Aunts and 96 year old Grandma (yes, 96!), my 68 year old LA-based Aunt said she was accused of getting implants by an old friend (Come on, people, it is LA-could happen).

Why did her chest look so perky and silicone-filled? Well, it was because of her perfectly fitted bra, thank you very much.

Yes, my Aunt could pass for early 50’s (easy), however, the bra just sent her over the edge. Her friend, an east coast gal, probably thought implants were included in insurance polices for all LA residents 65 and older (again, this could happen…it is LA).

The power of a properly fitted bra.

If you are going to fit, go to the master. Ralph at Orchard Corset 212-674-0786 Lower East Side, NYC.

He knows your size practically at a glance and will fit you properly — support around the rib cage not the straps!

Do yourself a favor and GET FIT!!!

Wednesday, June 7th, 2006

Issues.
We’ve all got ’em.

What matters is when they stop us from living as big as we want to.

Do you feel unprepared to dress for the events in your life?
That is an issue.

Do you feel like you can’t fit into your clothes?
That is an issue.

Do you feel like your hair is all wrong?
That, my friend, is also an issue.

Sounds superficial at first, but these little nagging points get in the way of us connecting to other people.

If you are at a party and concentrating on the appropriateness of your outfit, you are not paying attention to all the people and possibility around you.

You start to have envy towards people who do not have your issue. The ones who are perfectly dressed for the occasion, without a care in the world.

The magic happens when you direct positive energy and action towards your issue and, all of the sudden, it disappears.

Next event, you are prepared and feeling great. Concentrating on how good you feel and how much fun you are having meeting all these wonderful people.

Issue? What issue?

Thursday, June 1st, 2006

So we were talking about pants, right???

Last week, you found out I wear my jeans over and over again and feel quite proud…remember?

This week, I promised to fill you in on the deal with pants this season. Basically, shorts, in any incarnation, rule the scene. Yes, the hardest-ever-to-wear below-the-waist item is everywhere.

Really short, shorts-kinda baggy (with cuffs) look great with platforms. Fitted knee-length shorts (without cuffs) do the same. Very full pleated knee-length shorts also bode well with platforms. And finally, culottes, I am officially crazy about culottes, and, guess what, they look great with platforms! Who knew?

Are you sensing a theme here?

Be very honest with yourself and very detached. Shorts are a toughie so choose your length carefully. Skip it entirely if you feel any hesitation. No need to put yourself through a cranky day for a trend.

There are plenty of other great pants out there this season. Slightly shorter in length and wider in the leg with great pockets or belted details. Very fun and flirty.

Pick what makes you feel best.

Wednesday, May 24th, 2006

Jeans are quite possible my favorite “go to” garment. If you know me, you know I wear them constantly.

In the next two seasons, you will see a new trend in “below-the-waist-wear” (more on that next week).

For now, let’s focus on, our friend, the denim jean and find out if you are really treating them right.

When buying jeans, as you probably know, buy them a bit tight. Not spray on tight, just slightly snug. Jeans will give after you wear them.

They warm to your body and expand where you need expansion. In fact, jeans want to conform to YOU and do so when you wear them several times without washing.

They have more character the more you wear them and...write this down...the LESS you wash them.

They form to your bod and stay that way. Ready and waiting to fit you perfectly.

When you wash them, they loose that lovely shape.

If you feel like you need to wash your jeans to make them fit your body, you are most likely buying them too big.

Stay true to your friends, the jeans. They are built to be low maintenance. Treat them that way. You'll like them even more.

Wednesday, May 17th, 2006

How is it possibly the middle of May?! Did I somehow miss April?

Time is flying.

Summer will be here before you know it and that means I am going to want to wear a bathing suit, a lot.

After two sort of stressful years, I put on some extra weight.

It is coming off. I am on the right track.

At this moment, I am not where I want to be. Not able to wear what I want and it is frustrating. Very easy to throw something on in the morning and not really look in the mirror.

This denial has made me quite anxious when I think of putting on that bathing suit.

How do I get over it? I face the fear.

Each morning, before I get dressed, I put on my divine little black 2pc with an attached skinny small belt. As I fumble with the closure, I think of how excited I was when I first purchased it. It looked a bit intimidating on the hanger, but, when I put it on, it was magic. I felt so comfortable and supported.

The first day, it was hard to take that first look in the mirror and face the fact I have gained weight. Not easy and quite emotional. Really hate the way the weight settled around my waist…that never happened before.

Was is a horrible experience? Yes, it was. I was really unhappy with what I saw.

Am I glad I did, and continue to do it every day? Yes. It motivates me to make myself feel better. I want to look better, I want to feel healthier and proud of this great body that allows me to do so many things in my life.

And you know what happened? After the first week, it started to feel not so horrible. I saw some good things. I started to feel more comfortable. I started to get excited about the progress I am making.

See where you are and where you want to be each day. It is empowering and a great tool to help you feel better.

Thursday, May 11th, 2006

You know Vegas, right? That little destination location full of slot machines, show girls, and fanny packs…?

Well, I spent last weekend tooling around that town. Successfully avoided getting any piercings, tattoos…or fanny packs, for that matter.

Not exactly my scene, however, I was quite taken with the shopping. High roller stores with their wildest merchandise out for all to see.

Chanel, Burberry, Prada, Dior, Hermes…all the heavy hitters were “in the house.” Even Needless Markup…oops, typo, I mean Neiman Marcus took risks in what they offered and looked rather interesting.

Shopping was a bling-filled experience. Very “money” and all that you would want in the Vegas experience.

Focus on the pricey hotel shopping… the Bellagio, Caesars, the Venetian, and hit Mandalay Bay. The Fashion Show mall is really only good for Neiman’s. The rest of the mall is quite unpredictable.

Get ready to walk. Finding a cab is a nightmare and the hotels stick a casino in front of your face every five minutes. (Again, not my scene.)

The selections are over the top and, for that, it is worth it. So instead of handing over your money to the dealer, hand it to the salesperson and pick up something outrageous.

Wednesday, May 3rd, 2006

Style has as much to do with all things NOT fashion as it has to do with fashion.

Really stylish people have more on their minds than clothes. Life is on their minds.

They pursue what interests them and view clothing as a lovely accent to their lives. It is not their life.

Think Audrey Hepburn, Jeremy Irons and Jude Law (well, we all know he’s had other things on his mind). Fashion was/is not their main concern.

Staying in fashion is an interest, a curiosity, a great compliment to their fulfilling lives. It helps them present themselves more accurately and feel comfortable being seen.

In truth, it is exactly what it should do for you.

When you are “all about fashion” it can easily feel more important than actually living your life. Keeping up with the latest and greatest takes a lot of time and energy. A helpful tool becomes a pressure, an expectation.

Keep your fashion in check and keep it fun.

Wednesday, April 26th, 2006

Getting ready for a few weekend trips this upcoming month. Practically have it all down to a science. No matter where I am going…Ohio or Vegas…both true this month, I know my moisturer needs will be met.

What am I talking about? Only my most favorite all-in-one product that I have ever used. Very big statement, here, please pay attention.

This is one product I use to…
condition my hair (as a rinse out or leave in conditioner)
groom my hair (keep my mane in place)
moisturizer my lips
moisturize my face
shave my legs
remove my eye make up
condition my cuticles
moisturize my entire body
treat my sun burnt skin…

Remember, I said this is ONE product. At home I use it to clean my make up brushes and to feed my beautiful banana tree — he just loves when I put it in his water and add it to his spray bottle.

It is also great for babies. Gentle enough to bathe and moisturize the little guys.

People, if I could, I would put this product in a suit and marry it.

Are you ready? It is Tate’s Natural Miracle Conditioner ($21.95/ 18 oz bottle). Created from all natural ingredients and love just for you by the Tate family. www.thetatefamily.com

You simply must try.

Call Steve at 440.516.5357, tell him I sent you and take him up on some special offers he has right now. You will love it.

And they love you, they really do. And so do I.
Enjoy!

Wednesday, April 19th, 2006

Sorry to be the one to say this, but, you can’t wear everything. That’s right. The world of clothing is not your oyster.

Hard to hear, right? Bad news. Here I sit, narrowing your options, limiting your choices, making it a little more difficult to find the right thing.

The good news…life is so much easier when you know what doesn't work.

Do I want to wear skinny, skinny jeans with ballet flats? Sure I do. Am I able to wear skinny, skinny jeans with ballet flats? No. I do occasionally eat bread.

Do I want to wear a really high fitted crew neck? I guess I do. Am I able to wear a really high fitted crew neck? No. Not with my natural D cups. In fact, it’s hard for me to even stand next to someone wearing a really high fitted crew neck.

How do I know all these things? I try them on. Yes, simply trying on items that interest you teaches you so much about your limitations and your celebrations.

It’s the only way you will ever know if those frilly lace-covered short sleeve shirts are made for you or not.

Try it on. Throw caution to the wind and try on EVERYTHING that calls to you. That, my dear, is what it is there for.

Wednesday, April 12th, 2006

I can’t stop laughing.

You know “The Onion,” right. Possibly the best source for made up news our country has to offer.

Well, check out their dig at our beloved hetero guy… http://www.theonion.com/content/node/47189

Ladies, they need us.
Guys tend to concentrate on comfort and forget you can actually be comfortable AND look good.

But how do you bring it up???

Answer is…you don’t.

When talking to a guy about their appearance, only comment on the positive.

The minute you say “You look sloppy in that big white t-shirt”…the walls shut down and you hurt their feelings. Yes, you really do.

Guys are highly sensitive about the way they look, especially about their hair.

The minute you say something negative, like, God forbid, “Your hair looks thinner,” you are no longer a safe place for them. You are a source of criticism.

One of their co-workers can call them “the hairless wonder,” you cannot. Even if it is true.

The key is to focus on what they are doing right. For example, “I love the way you look in that jacket. You look so strong in suits.”

Or, if you want them to start wearing more colors, compliment them like crazy when they do…“That blue really brings out your eyes,” “You look tan when you wear that pink shirt.”

Trust me, positive reinforcement is the ticket. Kindness and patience will get you a well dressed man.

Thursday, April 6th, 2006

Aging is an interesting creature, isn’t it? My life continues to get better with each passing year, I am happy to say. Wouldn’t go back to 23 if you paid me. Couldn’t imagine dealing again with drama of my late 20’s.

I like getting older. I just want to do it well and look as good as I possibly can. Am I conceited? Superficial? No, I just think I am like everyone else.

Ladies, graceful aging is a beautiful thing.

Upkeep is key. Diet and exercise are important. We all know that. Three other areas are skin, teeth and hair.

In your 30’s, concentrate on skin care. Meet with a dermotologist, get facials. Do what feels right, do something. Create your own routine.

Go for teeth cleanings regularly. Ask you dentist to suggest subtle changes. Go gradually.

In your 40’s, darken your hair. Yes, darken. On most of the population, darker hair will make you look younger.

If you know you will one day go under the knife to reverse the aging process, the 40’s are the time to start. Otherwise the change is too dramatic and you will end up looking like a project instead of a person.

Maintain. Make changes subtle and infrequent. Get better with time.

Wednesday, March 29th, 2006

Do you remember when you could get a swanky hotel room for $250/300.00 a night in New York?

Spend $50.00 to 60.00 for a really fabulous meal. Buy a fierce pair of shoes for $200/300.00?

Now it’s $400/500.00 for a nice room in New York. A full “Benjamin” for good dinner, and, the other day, I found myself contemplating a pair of $500.00 flip flops!

What has happened??!!???

Everything is getting higher except paychecks.

I think it stems from our obsession with celebrities. Letting them set the standard for OUR happiness.

I think we are all suffering from a bit of celebrity dementia.

Let’s stop for a second and ask ourselves what really makes us happy. Is it really a diamond encrusted pink watch? An $800.00 haircut? A $35.00 martini?

Where are we going to go from here?

I am a big supporter of the high life but I worry when it’s about other people’s standards, not our own.

When I catch myself in an occasional episode of “The Fabulous Life of Holly Getty,” I ask myself who is this for? If it brings me deep joy (like celebrating with caviar at the Petrossian cafe with a good friend), then, go girl. When it’s about keeping up with the latest label-obsessed celeb, then, let it go.

Thursday, March 23rd, 2006

If you haven’t already, start shopping for Spring this weekend.

All the good stuff is on the floor and, trust me, it will go quickly.

Look high end and low end. Start at the most expensive end of the spectrum and work your way down.

I love shopping at Jeffery NY in the meatpacking district and then checking out Zara to see what they have to offer.

Zara is a very successful line out of Spain which hit it’s peak a few years ago but still offers some great items. The company is known for selling trends as soon as they hit the runways.

With fabrics, patterns and sewers in tow, Zara sends large ships across the Atlantic to deliver clothes to North America. While the ship sails, the sewers sew. In about a month to six weeks, they arrive at the port with finished garments.

It is efficient and a bit controversial.

Check it out.

Wednesday, March 15th, 2006

I have been traveling quite a bit the last couple months and was thrilled to experience a very nice domestic weekend.

While folding pretty damask napkins, I realized anything you could use to set a table with is really “in” this Spring.

Pretty white dresses and skirts in eyelets and embroideries. Lino weaves and delicate jacquard designs. Very delicate, very sweet.

I am, however, not buying anything until I edit my closet.

There is a chip in my brain which does not allow me to really let loose on shopping until I quickly review and edit what I have.

Spring will be here soon so I want to make sure I have my goods in order before my big Spring wardrobe consultation season hits.

Get excited… the warm weather will be back. I promise.

Wednesday, March 8th, 2006

Does your job reflect your style?

Are you really a sharp dressed suit guy surrounded by a sea of Dockers?

Are you a fashionista imprisoned in nude reinforced toe panty hose? (the horror)

Ideally, what you wear during the day should be something you would proudly wear into your off hours. (And why shouldn’t everything be ideal, people?)

Impossible you say?

Well, if what you wear to work makes you uncomfortable, chances are your job does too.

Think about it. If your job isn’t a perfect fit, there is one out there that is.

Wednesday, March 1st, 2006

This Sunday night we get to enjoy the pretty prancing of over-indulged actors in borrowed clothing… and I can hardly wait!

It’s Oscar time!

Pay particular attention to the hair. Yes, the dresses are fun, but, watch to see if the hair is big or back, or curly or straight. This is time for the top hairstylists to strut their stuff–so watch carefully. See what resonates with you.

The best male actor race is a biggie this year. Yes, I loved Heath as our beloved gay cowboy… how could you not. PSH – Philip Seymore Hoffman basically became Capote and adorable Jaoquin brought it home as Johnny Cash. How to choose?

You wanna know how??

Ask yourself if each actor could play the other part.

Could Heath bring it home as Johnny Cash? Could PSH become a gay cowboy? Could Jaoquin convince me he is Capote?

Interesting, huh?

So prep your pre-game snacks and get ready for the big event on Sunday night.

Wednesday, February 22nd, 2006

After a few warm and deeply enjoyable days in Naples, FL, I am reporting to you from a brisk and beautiful Paris. Not much to complain about this month, I must say.

Spring is in the air and the designer clothing looks lovely.

Really feminine and wearable.

One color story rises to the top is black, white, an orange–red, and the star of the show, an intense cobalt blue. Check out Madonna donning the color on the cover of the March Bazaar.

This blue is everywhere. Looks good for men as well as women. I like it on blondes but it looks really rich on brunettes.

The other tip you must try this season is a dress. Casual or dressy, the dress gets the title of “the one thing you can't live without this season.”

Ok, you might live, but life wouldn’t be that fun.

A dress gives you a flare, a presence. A real change of gears. So much easier than two garments, a dress makes things simple and gives added grace to your walk.

I highly recommend running out early to grab your own lovely dress this season. Make it cobalt and I will give you a gold star.

Wednesday, February 15th, 2006

So remember what I said about long, flowing big hair — all the rage, right? right.

Well, fashion is a pendulum, swinging from one extreme to the other.

So what’s next???

Men’s haircuts on women.

What?

Let’s talk about it.

You: “So you mean to tell me they expect me to cut off this mane for some severe boyish cut.”

Me: “Remember, this is just a trend. It is done to keep your attention. If it doesn’t work for you, let it pass on by.”

You: “Yeah but, what are they talking about? Barber cuts?”

Me: “Yes, barber cuts. Short bobs or side parts combed neatly to the side. Cuts nine year old boys get before school starts.”

You: “Give me a break.”

Me: “Sorry, I can’t. This is fashion.”

You: “Sounds too weird. I don’t see it happening.”

Me: “Perfect, hate it but pay attention, you will start to see it everywhere.”

Wednesday, February 8th, 2006

If your mind is not focused on Summer, your feet should be…

Now is the time to prep your toes for their strappy sandal debut in June.

Skip the polish right now. Wear your nails short and buffed.

Here’s the equation… Long toe nails + boots and pumps = unnecessary toe pain.

Covered shoes press skin to nail and pinch your little tootsies. Long nails trap bacterial, and yuck – fungus (need I remind you of those nauseating print ads?)

Keep them short and smooth. In April, let them grow a bit for those sexy Blahniks clamoring to get out of your closet.

Thursday, January 26th, 2006

I’m feeling not so pretty lately.

Dealing with the aftermath of the holidays – the 5lbs that came out of nowhere (I swear!). The flood of good and bad TV I can’t miss and the general mid winter exile I put myself in until Spring resurfaces.

I need a spa day.

I also need some kickin’ Spring shoes – and, ladies they do look kickin’.

So, let’s forgo the spa day and create our own little ritual at home.

I make myself a pot of ginger tea, light some candles, take a long steamy bath and give myself a yogurt facial.

Yes, spread plain yogurt over damp skin and leave on for about 10 to 15 mins. You will be amazed at the gentle exfoliation and thrilled with your baby smooth skin.

It sets you back about a quarter and makes you feel like a million.

Enjoy!

Wednesday, January 18th, 2006

Do you ever notice annoying break outs around your chin?

Do you ever seem to have cold after cold after cold?

Your trusty little phone receiver may be to blame.

Germs and bacteria love to hang on to phones and if not cleaned, may cause those awful chin zits that no amount of cover up can conceal.

Yes, I should start a tele-thon.

Buy a bottle of alcohol – not Belvedere, ladies, just the drug store alcohol will do – and some cotton pads. Clean your phone..and that dirty little mouse while you are at it – with the saturated cotton pads two or three times a week.

Life just feels better when your phone is sterilized.

Enjoy!

Friday, January 13th, 2006

I welcomed in 2006 a little TOO much this year and have just recovered from a massive head cold.

All better now and thinking about what will be new and interesting for 2006.

Maybe it’s PERMS.

What was that? Perms? The 80’s enabler to some of the bigger, frizzier video hair we have ever seen?

There are actually softer, gentler perms on the horizon, but the main point here is your reaction to the idea.

Most really successful new ideas shock at first. Make you uncomfortable and a bit unsure. They grab your attention.

Faith Popcorn, one of our top trend predictors, thinks the new “it girl” for 2006 will be Camilla Parker Bowles. Yes, young girls are over and the new ideal is women who marry in their 50’s.

Are you shocked?
Are you a bit unsure?

Fabulous.

Stay tuned… it’s going to be a great year.

xo
Holly

Wednesday, December 14th, 2005

What’s a better way to let people know you are ready to celebrate the season....??

Why, it’s BIG HAIR, of course!

Get out the big rollers, the fat curling irons, sister, I am talking full, full hairdos.

Not the 80’s big hair, no, no. Think sixties mod rock. Smooth big hair, not frizzy big hair.

Remember, you are a star of a Warhol movie, not a Poision video.

Go smooth, sleek, and did I mention…BIG!!

Show you care this holiday season.

Bye, bye to flat irons. Hello big curling irons.

Wednesday, December 7th, 2005

As you shop for your partner/husband/wife/ boyfriend/girlfriend…in other words, significant other, remember one thing and one thing only.

You MUST give them a romantic gift.

I don’t care if they beg and cry for a Dyson vacuum cleaner or really really want to re-landscape the front yard.

You still HAVE to give them a romantic gift.

It’s in the relationship contract.

By law (ok, my law), if you are lucky enough to have a significant other, it is your duty to give them a romantic gift. It’s like taking the car in for service every year. You maintain your car, you maintain your relationship.

It’s ok to buy them a bright yellow Dyson vacuum – that’s fine. In addition, give them something that tells them you and you alone know them and love them better than anyone.

Doesn’t have to cost a mint (and totally fine if it does). : ) A small token is fine.

Best ever inexpensive romantic gift…
A pastry chef’s wife found a vintage Pillsbury Doughboy keychain for her husband.
Genius.
Cost- $5.00.
Impact- priceless.

Each day, as he fumbles for his keys, he smiles and thinks of her. He knows she gets him and loves him.

That, my friend, is the goal.

Happy shopping.

November 30th, 2005

Is your holiday date book looking pretty full right now?? Dance card filling up, girlfriend?

Running out of the office at 7 pm and arriving home around 2 am??

We know what your up to.

So let’s fool everyone and make you look as fresh as a daisy at your next after work holiday booze fest.

After staring at a computer screen all day, the last thing your eyes need is dark make up.

Go with a light lid to brighten your eye instead of making it darker.

Try a VERY subtle light green, light violet, champagne or… you know I was going to say it, light blue. Used in moderation, it can awaken your eye and make you look younger and more fresh.

They’ll never know you’ll be existing only on cocktails and Christmas cookies for the next six weeks.

Happy Holidays.

November 23rd, 2005

Happy Turkey Day.

You know what that means, it is serious sale time. Retailers will attempt to grab your attention with promises of 40% off regular prices, heck, even 70% off.

Most of these “sales” are well planned store profits.

Supported by inflated starting prices, the monster conglomerate looks like they are offering you a real deal. In reality, it is usually a hook with a worm dangling from it.

Buyer beware.

If you DO decide to go out, make me this promise.

Only buy it if you would pay the original price for the item.

For example, I see a lovely metallic knit shirt basically saying “take me to an evening holiday party now.” Very tempting. It is $80, marked down from $200 – wow.

Sister, if I wouldn’t pay $200 for this little conversation piece, I ain’t paying 80 bucks.

If I wouldn’t pay more, chances are this little hunk of metal would only see daylight (or evening light) once, maybe twice.

Be careful, be selective. Be aware.

November 16th, 2005

Looking younger than you are.
What a lovely concept.

You can exfoliate off a few years but the best tip is continued learning.

Learning new things keeps you young, stimulated, vibrant, and alive.

Should you enroll in a Master’s program tomorrow? Only if you are passionate about it.

Pursuing what interests you, what calls to you.

It could be a new breed added to the American Kennel Club. Could be a delicious wine you drank last week.

Learn about it. Stay open.

At the very least, look through magazines you usually don’t read the next time you are waiting for your dental cleaning. See what sparks your interest.

A secluded pocket of Thailand?
The history of chocolate?

Stimulate your mind.
Stay curious and young.

November 9th, 2005

It’s getting chilly. Break out the turtlenecks and scarves.

It’s time to cover your neck.

The higher the neckline, the shorter the hair.

Traditionally, it was thought to wear hair shorter in the summer and longer in the winter.

Actually, in the summer, you show more skin. Long hair looks great on skin.

When you wear more clothing and volume around your neck, long hair can create too much of a distraction. Go shorter or wear it up. You will look taller.

It’s all about proportion.

Short/pulled back hair balances a high neck.

Long hair balances bare skin.

November 2nd, 2005

Pink has been a major color for the last 10 years.

Pink for men. Pink in advertising.
Pink for women. Pink for pets. Pink in fashion.
Pink has been THE color for quite some time.

So what’s the next big color?
Purple?
No, good try.

Think in the blue family.

Over the next two years, pay attention to the amount of turquoise you see in magazines, fashion, and TV.

You will also see it in make-up as well.

Speaking of make-up, take some time for yourself and catch up on the latest ways to stay updated and pretty.

Come to my exclusive event with Shu Uemura (see below). You get me, Shu’s best make up artist, Mark Edio, and guest hairstylists working on you to make you look your best.

This is a deal and a very special evening. I encourage you to attend. Space is booking quickly. Please call Sandra at (212) 979-5500.

October 26th, 2005

Do you want to be noticed?
Have all eyes go to you?

If so, wear red.

Eyes cannot help but go to red. It draws them in like magic.

In person, it’s effective.
In a photo, it’s a guarentee you will be noticed first.

You don’t need to be head to toe red – like Santa (although that works well for him).

A red sweater under a jacket or a red scarf or tie makes the point perfectly. Red lips do the trick as well.

Another surefire way to be noticed is to work with me on your make up.

Come to my exclusive event with Shu Uemura (see below). You get me, Shu’s best make up artist, Mark Edio, and guest hairstylists working on you to make you look your best.

This is a deal and a very special evening. I encourage you to attend. Space is booking quickly. Please call Sandra at (212) 979-5500.

October 19th, 2005

Inviting you to
“Holiday Consultation and Cocktails”

On November 10, 2005 from 7-9pm, Shu Uemura, Japan’s legendary skin care and make-up line (www.shuuemura.com) and I are producing an exclusive event at their Soho store, 121 Greene Street (between Prince and Houston Streets) to prepare you for this holiday season.

A team of make-up artists, featuring Mark Edio, Shu Uemura’s Principal Make-Up Artist (who’s talents I have been personally wowed by for the past two years) and guest hair stylists will individually create a holiday face and hair style for you.

Along with champagne cocktails here is what you will receive…

• Each individual ticket is $150 per person, all of which is FULLY REDEEMABLE in Shu Uemura skin care and make-up products.

• Mark Edio and I will consult with you individually to create your holiday face for the season.

• Each person will also meet with a hair consultant who will work with your existing cut to create your holiday hair style.

The night is devoted to you looking and feeling great for the holiday season, also an excellent way for you to meet other New York professionals.

To purchase your tickets, please call Sandra at (212) 979-5500. Space is limited, so call early. And remember, friends are always welcome.

Ladies – be prepared – make plans to date and dine after the event because, trust me, you will look SO beautiful.

October 16th, 2005

Keeping life moving on a daily basis is a skill. Responsibilities pile up and, at times, become overwhelming.

Since returning from Europe, I have been running a little faster than usual on the hamster wheel.

This week things piled up and I over-committed. I got behind and overwhelmed. My apologies, I am sending the tip later than I would like.

Take 100% responsibility for ALL of your actions and relationships.

Whatever the situation, whatever the circumstance, take responsibility instead of becoming a victim.

For example, instead of, "my boyfriend treats me poorly", change to, "I allow my boyfriend to treat me poorly."

Instead of, "I am not recognized at work", change to "I am not positioning myself correctly at work."

Instead of feeling helpless in your struggle with weight, ask for help and create a support system so you are not alone.

Taking responsibility puts you in control and puts you in motion.

October 5th, 2005

As I walked directly into a gigantic Halloween display, I realized the season is upon us. The holidays? No. Dry skin season.

We are days away from the clang of radiators. The spew of way too much heat for one person.

Sure, it’s 80 today. Trust me, in a couple weeks, it will be 80, as well…in your apartment!

So, this you MUST try.

Moisturizing with oil is an effective method, however, I find it messy. Usually, I see oil spots on some article of clothing and I feel kinda filmy for the rest of the day.

Get the benefits of oil without the mess.

Moisturize with oil BEFORE you shower.

What??? Yes, I said BEFORE you shower.

This is not a tip, this is a revelation.

Showering robs your body of moisture. Using oil before seals it in.

Try baby oil, sesame oil, or scented. (I am quite into a nice grapefruit and mint oil, at the moment.)

Use whatever moves you.

You will feel clean AND protected— not just clean.

Run, don’t walk to your closest shower and give this one a try.

September 28th, 2005

Back home in NYC and missed my big, loud city… and man is it loud here. Europe is quite peaceful, even in the heart of Paris.

As I mentioned last week, Paris really does encompass fall fashion. Here’s a little more detail. Next year, in most US stores, you will see a plethora of black. It has already saturated the designer market.

Emphasis is now on the cut and precious detail of tailored clothing. Black showcases these subtle elements best. Think of a full feminine softly pleated skirt in black with a short fitted jacket, a matching black organza flower, and black gloves.

All black, all feminine.

The make up is porcelain white with a blush of color on lips and cheeks. Eyes are almost bare with just a touch of definition, skip the mascara.

If you are looking for it, this is the fashion look of the season.

Let it entertain you.Take out what you like and skip the rest.

That’s the fun of it.
Enjoy!

September 21st, 2005

Spent a couple days in Florence. Beautiful city. Now, can someone please explain why I’m hearing so much English there?

Paris, on the other hand, is as French as ever. And, interestingly, starting to look towards tradition, and classic values and colors. Cut over décor, dark over colorful, luxurious over flashy.

And while these are developing trends for the Fall 06 collections, they’re already in the air. Oh, September in Paris…

Full report next week!

A bientôt!

–Holly

September 14th, 2005

Greetings from Milan (Italy). I am checking out what’s coming next fall.

It’s very moody here…fashion is looking very somber. Dark saturated blues and lots of black. Styles are covered and buttoned–up.

Speaking of buttons, big — I mean huge — buttons are still looking good for Fall.

Did I say huge?

I meant enormous.
Big round shiny buttons look great.

You’ll see it in the stores now and the look will continue into next year.

Perfect time to get that really novel coat I told you to get a few weeks ago — you did get it, right??

Well, if not, look for the great big buttons with maybe a touch of military for good measure.

Ciao!

See you in Paris next week.

–Holly

Friday, September 9th, 2005

www.hollygetty.com is here to help you discover your personal style.

I welcome you, your friends, family and co–workers to tour the site and see how I can help you look better, feel better, and express exactly who you are to the world.

Be your best, I will be happy to help.

August 31st, 2005

As I was walking home tonight, barely able to inhale in the oppressive NY heat, I was thinking about wooly coats.

Not sure if this is really normal, but I thought I would pass it on...

Don't buy a basic coat this Fall.

Way too much cool novelty stuff going on right now to invest in a plain old basic.

Look for buckles, belts, high collars, details, ladies, details!...and lots of tailoring.

Buy a coat in your most flattering color. "Oh, I guess it does match my eyes, doesn't it"(pls, like you didn't know).

Stick a flower on it.
You heard me, pin some big black fake rose right on that thing.

Whatever you do, make it yours.
Make it a statement.

This Fall season ain't about basics, baby. Live it up.

August 24th, 2005

What is the last thing you said to yourself today?

Did you tell yourself your hair’s all wrong,
you're broke and you're late AGAIN?

Or did you tell yourself your life is full of opportunities and people who love you?

Whatever you said, you will get more of it today---a lot more.

Your thoughts create your reality.

Whatever you say, your mind adjusts.

You run the show.

Think positively and watch what unfolds.

August 17th, 2005

Grab a pair of your least favorite jeans, a pair of scissors and create a new look for late Summer and early Fall.

Cut the legs off just below the knee. Look in the mirror and roll them up a bit. You may want to cut them just above the knee depending on what is more flattering.

This look is great with flats or heels for Summer. Great with high boots for fall.

Very fun and sexy for your last Summer fling.

August 10th, 2005

Is your job making you ugly?

Are you walking around in a continual state of overwhelm?

Do you not care what you wear to work?

Do you look worn out all the time?

Have you lost your mojo?
Do you feel anything but attractive?

You are not alone.

Working in a male dominated culture-- and let's face it--it is, can wear on you.

It's easy to lose touch with your feminine side.

Pick one thing to do each week to help you get in touch with your beautiful self.

Get your hair blown out.
Nails done.
Take a meditation class.
Learn how to Salsa.

What gets you excited about yourself again?

August 3rd, 2005

I am declaring ma'am a "four letter word."

As in, "Will that be all, ma'am?"
or "Have a nice day, ma'am."

Nice day? Well it was a nice day...

We've all been there.
You're having one of those Mary–Tyler–Moore– moments when you can turn the world on with your smile. You innocently buy coffee and get hit with a ma'am sandwich...
"Thank you ma'am. You have a nice day, ma'am."

It's like walking into a wall– a ma'am wall.

I don't care if you are 27 or 87. Hearing ma'am can make you feel removed and far from feminine.

Miss, on the other hand, makes everybody blush. It taps into the feminine energy you are shooting out of your pours.

Don't believe me?

Ask your Mom.
What does she prefer?

July 27th, 2005

When it comes to clothing, men are concerned about what other people think.

Women are concerned about how the clothing makes them feel.

Big difference.

Women do not obsess about what others think of what they wear. We have just been told we do.

In reality, men are much more concerned about the thoughts other people.

Don't believe me?

Ask two men in your life what they think about when they buy clothes.

Yes, at first they will say comfort.

After that, pay attention and notice if they comment on how they will look to other people.

Then, ask yourself what you think about when you dress.

You will be amazed.

July 20th, 2005

Attention fashionistas!

The look for Fall 05 is the skinny, skinny jean paired with tall boots or cool flats.

The best brand I have seen is Acne. Yes, if the name isn't nauseating enough, the price sure is.

They cost is around $200 to $270 per pair. However, if you can afford it and fit your butt into them, they will look current and sexy for the next 3 years.

http://acnejeans.com/

And that, ladies, is worth it.

July 13th, 2005

Packing is a creative and exciting experience.

Before I leave on a trip, I lay out
EVERYTHING I WANT
to take the night before.

I go to bed telling myself
I can bring all I want to bring.
No worries on what will fit.

Next morning, I edit at least half.
The important stuff becomes clear.
The excess goes away.

Allowing myself to freely create
my wardrobe, makes it possible to
see what is important.

July 6th, 2005

The humidity is getting to me.

I could have helped land a 747 with the shine coming off my face this week.

My only saving grace has been the “Clean and Clear Oil Absorbing Sheets.”

These work. They really work.

With a clever little sticky patch, each sheet is ready to reduce the shine when you are.

Just a few blots and you look fresh and matte.

No kidding, ladies. This is a must have for the ridiculous heat to come.

Buy at your local CVS or Duane Reade.

Be grateful for your healthy, oil producing skin. Just don’t advertise it.

JUNE 29th, 2005

Man, it’s hot.
Like sweaty hot.

Since there is no subtle way of saying this...make sure your white shirts stay white, not yellow and white.
Got it?

I love investing in clothes.
A white shirt, however, is not something to invest in right now.

Buy white shirts cheap and in bulk for the summer months. Clean and white is all you need to worry about.

My all time favorite is the classic Hane’s ribbed tank--otherwise known as the infamous Brando “wife-beater tee”.

A pack of three will set you back about $8.00. Wear them with business suits, fancy skirts and your jeans. It’s a sexy cut and very easy to layer.

Wear them and replace often.

Got it?

JUNE 15th, 2005

Treat your make up like your wardrobe.

Perk it up seasonally.

You’ll be amazed at what a little something new for your face will do for your attitude.

Utilize the talented make up artists...especially if you live in the NY area...at your favorite line.

A new discovery I made was Mark Edio. A very talented make up artist at Shu Uemura in Soho (121 Greene St).

Ask questions and try new things. Build a relationship and ask them to help you bring out your best each season.

JUNE 8th, 2005

So, what’s your favorite thing to do?

Do you like to linger in bed?

...work in your garden?

...work out?

Then, my friend, you should have the nicest things surrounding you when you do your favorite thing.

The best bedding.

The best gardening scissors.

The best, most flattering work out wear.

Spare no expense on your favorite thing.

JUNE 1st, 2005

If you are going to spend money, spend it on the big three.
One, shoes.
Two, handbag.
Three, haircut.

If you want extra credit, go for number four, sunglasses.

Yes, I can hear you through my screen...“but I lose my sunglasses”.

If you tell yourself you lose them, I am sure you will.

If you buy the best made, most flattering sunglasses you can find and tell yourself you will have them for years, you will.

Shift your perception.

Invest in quality sunglasses and know they will perfect your summer outfits for years.

MAY 25th, 2005

Body language is fascinating.

Without words, your real feelings become quite apparent.

Basically, what matters most is where you aim your heart.

When you really want to connect to someone, your heart is in line with theirs.

When you want to avoid someone, you turn your back. Or in other words,

redirect your heart.